Sunday, January 9, 2011

KULFIWALA OF MHOW


The army has its own fair share of stories and people who have over the years become nothing less than legends in their own right. The Kulfiwala of Mhow is one such name, which has enthralled many generations of the Indian Army with his mouth-watering, home made kulfi! I first heard of him from my parents a long time ago and ever since whenever we are in the esteemed portals of this educational town, I have availed every opportunity of enjoying his kulfi.
As a ‘JC’ wife I took full advantage of this exotic gourmet and many a mediocre meal was relegated to top spot when it was followed by this delicious frozen dessert. But the full impact of the ‘Kulfiman’ syndrome hit me when my young daughters started awaiting him every afternoon, while we accompanied hubby dearest for his ‘SC’ course. That is when I decided to talk to him about this magical spell with which he binds every fauji family. Since the 1960’s when his father Pt. Kanhaiya Lal Sharma, known as Panditji, started this delicious tradition, the legend has grown to encompass officers of all walks, who are advised by friends and well-wishers to try out the daily dose of thandi kulfi, while they are at Mhow. Today his sons and grandsons are carrying on the family business. Gouri Shankar Sharma, a postgraduate in commerce, left his career to help out his father and carry on the kulfi tradition. He remembers accompanying his father occasionally on the evening rounds of Kulfi-selling when he was still a small boy in "half pants", and has met officers who remember him since then!
Back then, the family had moved to Mhow from Pithampura and were quite hard up for money. Selling kachhoris, moong dal halwa and kulfi in the market, along with fresh milk from their small in-house dairy was their only means of survival. As luck would have it, one of the officers suggested that they should sell the kulfi (which was even then quite amazing) in the army area to increase their sale. He helped get them a pass and the legendary ‘kulfiman’ began his rounds. Initially he started the trade on his cycle, visiting only the Infantry School every evening around five. Gradually as his wares became popular his elder son joined him, one managing the clientele in Malcolm Lines and the other handling the crowd in Karbala. Later they would proceed to MCTE. The famous Lambretta was bought in 1982 and since has driven a member of the Sharma clan on his daily routine come rain, sleet or heat! By and by the people of Mhow got attuned to the sound of the kulfiwala’s scooter and his soft call.
Now the father, Panditji is no more and the elder brother has also retired to regulate the business from the comforts of his home. Out of the other four brothers, the responsibility of the kulfi selling is now shouldered by Gouri Shankar and one brother with a nephew lending a helping hand, while the other two are managing a stone crusher in Pithampura. The family is financially stable now, attributing their success to the kulfi business. Their joint family comprises thirty one members and the younger generation has all studied well, with two engineer graduates and more aspiring for various interesting fields like IT and Chartered Accountancy. Pattering out ‘knowledge-fully’ the names and durations of all courses being conducted here, he began reminiscing about the regard showered on his father by all the officers and the lifelong friendships made; how many a youngster returned as a senior officer but still maintained the same cordial relationship, irrespective of his present status.
The kulfiwalas have changed their timings to cater to the changed schedules but the returns do not balance well. "We will carry on till we can for we are doing to earn love and goodwill. But the younger generation might not think so…" remarks Gouri Shankar. ‘How true thou speaketh’, for many a times an officer might be checked at the sentry posts of these revered institutes but the kulfiwala travels free without restrictions, eagerly awaited every afternoon. How I hope by some lucky graces he may continue to vend his tasty wares for a long time to come and every time we return he is back with the delicious kulfi in leaf pattals, at my doorstep!

69 comments:

  1. Best handmade , organic Kulfi ever .

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    1. MHOW kufiwala must continued as I know him since 1964.
      Till now we never detoriations in his quality and behaviour.

      Major RPS BHADOURIA INDORE MP

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    2. Really the officers still wait with eager for the KULFIWALA as soon they are back to their rooms at Mhow. In 2003, I asked Gauri Shankar Sharma that I am not able to make out anything the way he alarms about his arrival. However, everyone comes to know that KULFI is at the door step. He told me that he has done PhD in KULFI making and shouts 'RABRI MALAI, KULFI YA' as soon he reaches to the rooms/buildings.

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    3. I first remember of his mention being made by my father who had tasted his kulfi while doing those days in 1964 as wpn course. Once I happened to join the Army and was there for YOs. The first thing was to look for him.It was such a emotional feeling wondering how tastefully he would have offered them to Dad and his colleagues.Its some legendary tradition the family has lived up to . Great .

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  2. Nothing could match the taste and of course the timings...

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  3. How glad you wrote about him and his love of the work he does! Hope and wish that the Mhow cant be forever alive with the sound of his soft call and the generations to come get to taste the kulfi for a long long time.

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  4. Recently back from Mhow .Husband and self used to await for kulfiwala.Even I had heard about him from my parents and many others.I would say every bit of the kulfi was worth the wait of tasting it finally and then getting addicted to it . Lovely to read your article ma'am very beautifully written about kulfiwala.

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  5. Felt nostalgic. Still yearn for his kulfi. Such humility and love displayed when he stashed up the kulfi. May his clan grow and continue their sweet association with the faujis. Thanks ma'am for the article.... you did hit some raw cord somewhere..

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  6. Being a fauji kid thereafter a Signaller and with Dad settled in Mhow Sharmaji is part of the breath ... Nice read .. I still remember Panditjis handle bar moustache .
    They haven't still raised the cost to actual commercial value to keep the sentiments alive with fauj...

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  7. Thank you for penning down the memories of the wonderful place Mhow....we need to write about Soni Tailors....Qureshi ji....the other stalwarts of that place who have provided us some moments of happiness....rgds
    Rajneesh Akhoury, JAKLI

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  8. My wife would keep a fast so that she could have an excuse to have two instead of one.

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  9. Way back in 68, Sharma Ji pedalled all over the Infantry School & did so just after we had finished our lunch in the Mess.The second round he made - was in the evening.He used to give a shrill call to herald his arrival.One day I asked him as to what did it mean !
    Promptly he said slowly " कुल्फी, मलाई, रबड़ी वाला ".
    Folks- recall these words & shout aloud rapidly "कुल्फी, मलाई, रबड़ी वाला "
    Possibly the best homage to topi wala Pandit Ji! RIP.May your tribe increase!

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  10. A good recall - especially reading it out to my wife. Oh those were the best days of my life - the summer of ...

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  11. My first meeting with this legend was in the year 1979. After that I went to Mhow on four different courses and always looked forward to taste this delicacy which could convert any meal to a forgettable experience.

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  12. A very good write up on one of the 'institutions' of Mhow....His kulfis are the best I've had so far....Have very fond memories of having his kulfi post lunch, both as a bachelor & with family over four courses at Mhow....Feeling very nostalgic

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  13. Now that is an institution worth writing about!

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  14. Fondly recalling the kulfi...YOs, RSO, Mortar course, JC , SC at Mhow...All the way...kulfi was always there

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  15. Wonderful memories very well articulated

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  16. Being a diabetic also....I enjoyed his kulfis.

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  17. Fondly remember the kulfi and the kulfiwala... RSO,JC,SC...every afternoon was complete after kulfi...during SC it was our son who used to wait for him and rush hearing the sound..... Above all the words, unique way "phi phi kulfi..."

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  18. Fondly remember the kulfi and the kulfiwala... RSO,JC,SC...every afternoon was complete after kulfi...during SC it was our son who used to wait for him and rush hearing the sound..... Above all the words, unique way "phi phi kulfi..."

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  19. Absolutely delicious! And he had mastered the art of absolute timind and would reach between 2 pm and 3 pm!
    You had no choice but to have his kulfi!!

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  20. Wonderful article. I have fond memories of the kulfies.I remember the mind boggling experience of his products .

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  21. Nostalgic. His timing, quality and the way he dealt was superb. Part of history of Mhow and will remain always

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  22. Beautifully penned down ma'am...
    a good walk down the memory lane

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  23. Very well written. All of us think about the MHOW kulfiwala in the smae manner. PWO, JC, SC were all enjoyed with Kulfi. Remember at times in Inf School, WT squad break time also he was there.

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  24. An article took me back to june 1968 to August 68 when I was doing my weapons course in Infantry School. We used to come to our lines after rifle cleaning or bayonet fighting practice under the watchful eyes of then Major Bubber, our DS. Immediately we used to see the smiling face of Sharmaji with his delicious Kulfi sliced in the leaf. No talking but to have handing/taking over of Kulfi only. You have taken me back to that now.

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  25. Not only kulfi - which was perfect, his timings after lunch - before siesta time / golfing etc etc was also perfect

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  26. Looofee my kids used to call it. The best there is.

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  27. Well written. Remember my younger days doing course in Mhow. Nostalgic

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  28. Well written. Remember my younger days doing course in Mhow. Nostalgic

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  29. A similar institution was Gaikwad who sold the finest silk neckties and scarves to officers doing courses at Deolali....some of those ties and scarves bought at a pittance, still survive after three decades.
    Then there was the wonderful Renga, the Postman at DSSC Wellington who remembered the locker numbers of all 500 odd student officers effortlessly and the inimitable Shuklaji of Transit Officers' Mess, Srinagar.Great characters, much loved by succesive generations of soldiers.

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  30. Mhow is indeed the Mecca for Army.It has distinct and unique culture. Personalities and places have their unique flavour and lores attached to it.It is so nostalgic. There are people like Mr Jaju, insurance agent. Bajewala, Scooter wale bhaiya, Kiraye ka scooter etc. They are legends and have contributed in making of so many bright scholarly soldiers. Kudos to them. Thanks for remembering them.

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  31. At night time I am reading your article , the best I ever read n it is winter season ma'am. Now it is watering in the mouth OMG...Kulllfffffffiiiiiii very badly missing that amazing one. Thanks for reminding the back days of YO's, JC bla..bla.. bla courses at beautiful MHOW. Regards and thanks for this article.

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  32. Superb article & well written Ma'am.Good old kulfi wala , Nostalgic

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  33. Very well written and indeed his kulfi is too good especially during the scorching heat of Mhow. Glad u penned it down. Nostalgic for sure

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  34. Congratulations to the writer for the effort and idea to put the article on record...the man deserves the credit for his hardwork and qulaity of his stuff.

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  35. Hi Poonam, thanks for writing about this kulfiwala, who is an institution by himself. I am a second generation Signals Officer, and I remember my parents saying that when my mother was expecting me in 1954, it was standard practice that the kulfiwala had to leave one kulfi every evening at our place! Later as a young boy I have clear memories of the kulfiwala on his cycle with brass buckets, and matka at the back, bringing kulfi every afternoon and evening. Even later, my wife and children enjoyed the same kulfi - this time brought by the next generation on a scooter. I have never in my life eaten more delicious kulfi - anywhere in the world! Your blog has brought back such beautiful memories!Thanks

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  36. It's simply nostalgic - Generations of fauzis have grown up with the idea of enjoying the taste of Sharma ji's kulfi whenever they happen to go to Show -on popuar demand , I organized kulfi as dessert during an Infantry commanders' conference for the top Army brass and everyone was happy to have it straight from the Matka outside the officer's mess - Lt Gen Rameshwar Yadav

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  37. Mhow is the second home for all Army Signallers and we cannot forget the shrieking Lambretta horn and soprano voiced Kulfeeeeee daily afternoon. I heard it last month again....he is still around !
    Rajesh Pant

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  38. The greatest silver lining of doing any fauji course in mhow was the kulfi. Do I need to say more!!!

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  39. I had asked Sharmaji about his signature callout ...he replied ... sahab ye kulfi ki IP hai aapko nahi samajh aayegi. ... ha ... ha ... ha ... fond memories.

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  40. Very well written . Memories come flooding back.my son enjoyed it as a fauji brat and later as an officer.Hopefully Sharma ji's kulfi will still be around for the next generation.
    Is the Lambertta still there?

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  41. Although l did not get an opportunity to go to MHOW with family since I was not married then and could,not meet him but it,s a very nice of Kulfiwala He must maintain this good tradition

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  42. We used to wait for Sharmaji for his kulfi.It was daily routine for all of us in Mhow.

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  43. Yes, I too remember the Kulfiwala when I did my Platoon Weapons course in Inf School Show in May June 75. Fond memories, thank you.

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  44. Yes very true he was lifeline at the time of summers.most awaited man that time.

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  45. Top class stuff. Unbelievably good.

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  46. Kulfiwala Sharma ji ultimate and his kulfi beyond imagination. Yammmmmiiiii. Thanks for penning down the details. I wish I should go through the courses again in MHOW starting from YO.

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  47. Institutions in their own right.

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  48. Many a thank Kulfiwale for your trust and love. You gave Kulfi on outdoor exs
    even when no payment was made. You had to be reminded while the dues were paid on return to Mhow of the occasions when your delicacy was taken. You could forget but not your clientele which desperately wanted you to keep going for the love of that unique concoction.

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  49. Was there for a 10 day Course at MCTE, many a yr ago. Every evening KULFIWALA was there, Dot on time, & we used to be overjoyed, like kids, on his arrival. Enjoy his fare daily & it was a treat indeed & remembered till today, nearly 4 decades later, a trip down memory lane. Fond memories of Mhow.

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  50. Nostalgic memories...went back the memory lane

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  51. Thanks for sharing about the favourite kulfiwala, we use to wait for him daily. Today also if i get to know someone new visiting there i ensure to update kulfiwala and many such people whom one should meet once.

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  52. It's our pleasure to surve u all kulfi
    Now we are going to open our kulfi's branch in mhow and indore.

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  53. Very thoughtful Poonam Ji… thanks for honoring this true legend of a lifetime. He has been always about high quality, selfless dedication & quality humanitarian values at all times. Wish such .good things could last for ever http://poonam-writingfromtheheart.blogspot.com/2011/01/kulfiwala-of-mhow.html?m=1

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  54. He deserves a place in the records more than many, many ordinary people.He inspires me and brings to my mind great people such as Dharampal Gulati the outstanding founder of MDH spices! More such people are required for the good of our country and the world.

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  55. Hi Mam this is sumit sharma son of gauri shankar sharma the kulfiwala. I am glad to read your article, I had gone through your article a year ago and you have written that so nice and comments inspire me to take our kulfi to another level so that we can also serve Indian ARMY as our generations did with same kind of love and quality. I am a software engineer and managing packed drinking water as well but this article have changed my mind to serve kulfi during my life to Indian army, as a result we have started the same quality of kulfi in sticks and started serving in army and other places in cities.
    A Big n special thanks from the the bottom of my heart Mam
    and thanks to all soldiers for the comments and special thanks to indian army who gave us opportunity to serve you.

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